“CAT”

I pick up the Cat from Fridae.

The first thing impress me about this Cat is his look -- subtle and thoughtful, gazing through the window, like a prophet contemplating an unsolved inquiry with doubts.

Although I didn’t know what and how he looks like actually, he displays one and the only photo of him in fridae, but based on this profile picture, I decided to send him heart and added him as friend in my friend list in Fridae, as well as in my MSN.

Hence, he lives in my MSN for quite some time, and occasionally I do send him message, but not much, it was just a very shadow conversation. Cat is a bit restrain-type of people, I guess. As long as he lives in my MSN, he never make the first move to ask me anything, consider I am a stranger who pick him up from a site where most of the people in there are looking for fun, action and sex.

It was last night (14th May), we have the longest conversation we ever had, and it was pleasant to chat with him. A gentlemen-type of person, I felt that night of his attitude. I was expecting him to ask me about what am I looking for from picking him up from Fridae actually, like the rest of the youngster from the site or from TT, they will ask me so many questions about my status, where I stay, what I am, where can meet, what I like to do, and am I got place for fun, can I show them face photo, can they see me in cam, can we have cam sex, and etc.

Cat didn’t ask anything about sex-related questions at all. We briefly chat about the job we are doing, we talk about the Thomas cup tournament where M’sia lost all, express some thoughts about the situation in this country; in between, we did pause for some time during the conversation, where he goes to answer phone call, and I off to take my bath. For the whole night we chat nothing about the intimacy relationship or sex.

And I didn’t ask him as well. I felt there is nothing I should ask about this “basic instinct” or “human desire” from him. Our conversation purely based upon common chat where we share about knowledge and living experience.

Cat, is going to have a new name. He did proposed. But hope he would not; I still like the Cat as he is. -- 15/05/2010